Hi everyone,

Im certainly not unique in that Im basking in the glow of being an older parent. (Does 45 represent older?)

Theres lots like me. Youve seen them, ministering to their kids in the play area or pool, instantly recognisable with the silver highlights in their hair and possibly careworn demeanor

However, the older Dad faces both challenges and opportunities.

His world view may be a little jaundiced - yet he must meet the expectations of a bright-eyed, eager to learn and absorb toddler. Not always easy when your take on the world is tinged with a little pessimism? That same pessimism might also come with an appropriate level of knowledge and experience. The learning curve of the child might then be accelerated or enhanced.

Older Dad will also likely have a clearer picture of where he might direct his child in terms of education and steering them toward self-fulfilment. He might also be able to handle the screaming toddler in the supermarket a little more calmly! The kids toys thrown at you with alarming regularity might not seem too bad.

However, the actual use of these seemingly advantageous factors does require effort and input!

Its more likely the older Dad does not possess the energy levels typified by the younger Dad Could he then be found wanting?

One things for sure, the requisite effort and necessary free-thinking will bring tremendous rewards for both Father and child.

Youll both feel better and actually become more rounded individuals. Mummy will certainly award brownie points for your efforts - think of the benefits! Im sorry, does that sound mercenary?!

In a nutshell, make the time to play with your child Dont lose the ability to play because youll lose something of yourself. Thats if you have any energy left at the end of the working day!

For the older Dad, theres lots of hope Be a good Dad and society will reward you many times over.

Andy Mackay
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